Monday, May 29, 2017

Meeting: May 11, 2017

We decided to attend the Ann Dahmen Memorial Harp Concert at the library before meeting at the Trempealeau Hotel afterward to socialize and discuss Ordinary Grace by William Kent Krueger. Ellen, Kathy, Linda, and Liz attended the harp concert. Nanc tried to attend the concert but the library doors were locked when she arrived, so she had to listen from outside. Annie and Jo joined us at the hotel.

We unanimously decided to delay the June meeting to the 3rd week of June (June 15th) so that Linda, who is the June host, could attend the rain garden educational presentation at the library on June 8th. Many of us were also interested in attending the rain garden presentation. We also decided to change the meeting time to 6:00 for June's meeting. This is because we plan to socialize and then watch Girl with a Pearl Earring, which we hope will leave time to compare and contrast the book and the film afterward.

This month's water view was from the Trempealeau Hotel

I will tell you what's left, three profound blessings. In his first letter to the Corinthians, Saint Paul tells us exactly what they are: faith, hope, and love. These gifts, which are the foundation of eternity, God has given to us and he's given us complete control over them. Even in the darkest night it's still within our power to hold faith. We can still embrace hope. And although we may feel ourselves unloved we can still stand steadfast in our love for others and for God. All this is in our control. God gave us these gifts and he does not take them back. It is we who chooses to discard them. ~ William Kent Krueger
~ Ellen Bowes


My father cleared his throat, and said into the silence, "Is there anyone else who would care to offer the blessing? 
No one spoke and the silence stretched on painfully. 
Then at my side a small clear voice replied, "I'll say grace."
I stood dumbfounded because, Jesus, the person who'd spoken was my stuttering brother, Jake. He didn't wait for my father's permission. He rose from his chair and bowed his head.
I looked at all those people present, none of whom could bring themselves to close their eyes and miss the train wreck that was about to take place and I prayed as desperately as I ever had, Oh, dear God, take me away from this torture. 
Jake said, "Heavenly F-F-F." And stopped. 
O God, I prayed, just kill me now. 
My mother reached up and put her hand gently on his shoulder and Jake cleared his throat and tried again. 
"Heavenly Father, for the blessings of this food and these friends and our families, we thank you. In Jesus's name, amen." 
That was it. That was all of it. A grace so ordinary there was no reason at all to remember it. Yet I have never across the forty years since it was spoken forgotten a single word. 
"Thank you, Jake," my mother said and I saw that her whole face had changed. 
And my father looked mystified and almost happy and said, "Thank you, son." 
And all the people, as if released from some hypnotic trance, began to move again, though slowly, and got into line and filled their plates. 
And me, I looked at my brother with near reverence and thought to myself, Thank you, God 
~ William Kent Krueger
~ Nancy French 



Next Book: Girl with a Pearl Earring by Tracy Chevalier 
Location: Linda's
DateThursday, June 15, 2017
Time6:00pm 



Upcoming meetings:

July 13, 2017 Fierce Invalids Home From Hot Climates by Tom Robbins at TBA
August 10, 2017 The Awakening Land: The Trees, The Fields and The Town by Conrad Richter at TBA


Books we've read so far:

January 2014 - Grace (Eventually): Thoughts on Faith by Anne Lamott
February 2014 - The Book Thief by Markus Zusak
March 2014 - Life After Life by Kate Atkinson
April 2014 - The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-time Indian by Sherman Alexie
May 2014 - The Art of Racing in the Rain by Garth Stein
June 2014 - Breaking Free by Marilyn Sewell
July 2014 - The Orphan Train by Kristina Baker Kline
August 2014 - The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker
September 2014 - Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides
October 2014 - The Invention of Wings by Sue Monk Kidd
November 2014 - The Dovekeepers by Alice Hoffman
December 2014 - No book.  Holiday gathering.
January 2015 - No book.  Watched The Book Thief
February 2015 - The Secret Keeper by Kate Morton
March 2015 - Empire of the Summer Moon by S.C. Gwynne
April 2015 - The Orchardist by Amanda Coplin
May 2015 - The Cellist of Sarajevo by Steven Galloway
June 2015 - The Kitchen House by Kathleen Grissom
July 2015 - Still Alice by Lisa Genova
August 2015 - The Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown
September 2015 - Ruby by Cynthia Bond
October 2015 - To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
November 2015 - No book.  Watched To Kill a Mockingbird
December 2015 - No book.  Holiday gathering.
January 2016 - All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr
February 2016 - Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption by Bryan Stevenson 
March 2016 - Brooklyn by Colm Tóibín
April 2016 - Two Years Eight Months and Twenty-Eight Nights by Salman Rushdie
May 2016 - Jewelweed by David Rhodes
June 2016 - One Woman's River by Ellen Kolbo McDonah
July 2016 - Gift from the Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh
August 2016 - Deep Water Passage by Ann Linnea
September 2016 - This Road I Ride by Juliana Buhring
October 2016 - The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
November 2016 - No book.  Watched The Boys of '36
December 2016 - No book.  Holiday gathering.
January 2017 - About Grace by Anthony Doerr
February 2017 - Between the World and Me by Ta-nehisi Coates
March 2017 - Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
April 2017 - No book - meeting canceled
May 2017 - Ordinary Grace by William Kent Krueger





Sunday, March 26, 2017

Meeting: March 8, 2017

We switched our meeting night to Wednesday this month as our host Annie, had a conflict on our planned Thursday date. Annie served a variety of salmon dishes which were all delicious. And thanks to Paul for his contribution in the preparation! Annie, Christe, Ellen, Judy, and Nanc attended the meeting.

Sunset from near the top of Annie's driveway
Our book this month was Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. Americanah was not really plot driven so much as a book about the main character, Ifemelu, who speaks her mind and uses a blog to speak openly about racism in America.

The only reason you say that race was not an issue is because you wish it was not. We all wish it was not. But it's a lie. I came from a country where race was not an issue; I did not think of myself as black and I only became black when I came to America. When you are black in America and you fall in love with a white person, race doesn't matter when you're alone together because it's just you and your love. But the minute you step outside, race matters. But we don't talk about it. We don't even tell our white partners the small things that piss us off and the things we wish they understood better, because we're worried they will say we're overreacting, or we're being too sensitive. And we don't want them to say, "Look how far we've come, just forty years ago it would have been illegal for us to even be a couple blah blah blah," because you know what we're thinking when they say that? We're thinking why the fuck should it ever have been illegal anyway? But we don't say any of this stuff. We let it pile up inside our heads and when we come to nice liberal dinner like this, we say that race doesn't matter because that's what we're supposed to say, to keep our nice liberal friends comfortable. It's true. I speak from experience. ~ Chimanmanda Ngozi Adichie
If you're telling a non-black person about something racist that happened to you, make sure you are not bitter. Don't complain. Be forgiving. If possible, make it funny. Most of all, do not be angry. Balck people are not supposed to be angry about racism. Otherwise you get no sympathy. This applies only for white liberals, by the way. Don't even bother telling a white conservative about anything racist that happened to you. Because the conservative will tell you that YOU are the real racist and your mouth will hang open in confusion. ~ Chimanmanda Ngozi Adichie
Racism should never have happened and so you don't get a cookie for reducing it. ~ Chimanmanda Ngozi Adichie 
I realized that if I ever have children, I don't want them to have American childhoods. I don't want them to say "Hi" to adults, I want them to say "Good morning" and "Good afternoon." I don't want them to mumble "Good" when somebody says "How are you?" to them. Or to raise five fingers when asked how old they are. I want them to say "I'm fine, thank you" and "I'm five years old." I don't want a child who feeds on praise and expects a star for effort and talks back to adults in the name of self expression. Is that terribly conservative? Blaine's friends said it was and for them, 'conservative' is the worst insult you can get. ~ Chimanmanda Ngozi Adichie

April Meeting canceled due to many book club members having conflicts.

Next Book: Ordinary Grace by William Kent Krueger 
Location: Trempealeau Hotel (after Ann Dahmen Memorial Harp Concert at the library)
DateThursday, May 11, 2017
Time8:00pm (Harp Concert begins at 6:30)




Upcoming meetings:

June 8, 2017 Girl with a Pearl Earring by Tracy Chevalier at Linda's
July 13, 2017 TBA 
August 10, 2017 TBA


Books we've read so far:

January 2014 - Grace (Eventually): Thoughts on Faith by Anne Lamott
February 2014 - The Book Thief by Markus Zusak
March 2014 - Life After Life by Kate Atkinson
April 2014 - The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-time Indian by Sherman Alexie
May 2014 - The Art of Racing in the Rain by Garth Stein
June 2014 - Breaking Free by Marilyn Sewell
July 2014 - The Orphan Train by Kristina Baker Kline
August 2014 - The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker
September 2014 - Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides
October 2014 - The Invention of Wings by Sue Monk Kidd
November 2014 - The Dovekeepers by Alice Hoffman
December 2014 - No book.  Holiday gathering.
January 2015 - No book.  Watched The Book Thief
February 2015 - The Secret Keeper by Kate Morton
March 2015 - Empire of the Summer Moon by S.C. Gwynne
April 2015 - The Orchardist by Amanda Coplin
May 2015 - The Cellist of Sarajevo by Steven Galloway
June 2015 - The Kitchen House by Kathleen Grissom
July 2015 - Still Alice by Lisa Genova
August 2015 - The Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown
September 2015 - Ruby by Cynthia Bond
October 2015 - To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
November 2015 - No book.  Watched To Kill a Mockingbird
December 2015 - No book.  Holiday gathering.
January 2016 - All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr
February 2016 - Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption by Bryan Stevenson 
March 2016 - Brooklyn by Colm Tóibín
April 2016 - Two Years Eight Months and Twenty-Eight Nights by Salman Rushdie
May 2016 - Jewelweed by David Rhodes
June 2016 - One Woman's River by Ellen Kolbo McDonah
July 2016 - Gift from the Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh
August 2016 - Deep Water Passage by Ann Linnea
September 2016 - This Road I Ride by Juliana Buhring
October 2016 - The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
November 2016 - No book.  Watched The Boys of '36
December 2016 - No book.  Holiday gathering.
January 2017 - About Grace by Anthony Doerr
February 2017 - Between the World and Me by Ta-nehisi Coates
March 2017 - Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
April 2017 - Meeting canceled due to most members having conflicts

Wednesday, February 15, 2017

Meeting: February 9, 2017

We had a change of venue due to our wanting to support the Oscar nominated film series at the library. Annie, Christe, Ellen, Judy, and Nanc attended the movie, Florence Foster Jenkins, and then Kathy joined us at the Trempealeau Hotel for our meeting to discuss Between the World and Me by Ta-nehisi Coates.

Our water view meeting place was the Trempealeau Hotel this month


I was struck by the following while reading this book - the idea of 'black body' and that the schools are at fault. Being white, I have no clue about his existence. Being an educator, I've always hoped/trusted that we are doing what's noble and good... but realize we have a long way to go. Here are some passages that speak to this...

"Yeah, nigger, what's up now?" I recall learning these laws clearer than I recall learning my colors and shapes, because these laws were essential to the security of my body... I practiced the culture of the streets, a culture concerned chiefly with securing the body. I do not long for those days. I have no desire to make you "tough" or "street" perhaps because any "toughness" I garnered came reluctantly. I think I was always, somehow, aware of the price." ~ Ta-nehisi Coates
"The streets were not my only problem. If the streets shackled my right leg, the schools shackled my left. Fail to comprehend the streets and you gave up your body now. But fail to comprehend the schools and you gave up your body later. I suffered at the hands of both, but I resent the schools more. There was nothing sanctified about the laws of the streets - the laws were amoral and practical. You rolled with a posse to the party as sure as your wore boots in the snow, or raised an umbrella in the rain. These were rules aimed at something obvious - the great danger that haunted every visit to Shake & Bake, every bus ride downtown. But the laws of the schools were aimed at something distant and vague. What did it mean to, as our elders told us, "grow up and be somebody"? And what precisely did this have to do with an education rendered as rote discipline?" ~ Ta-nehisi Coates 
"Fear ruled everything around me, and I knew, as all black people do, that this fear was connected to the Dream out there, to the unworried boys, to pie and pot roast, to the white fences and green lawns nightly beamed into our television sets."  ~ Ta-nehisi Coates
Because I was born white in Wisconsin, I am privileged. The law of the streets doesn't affect me. I will never have to deal with the prejudice Coates speaks of. Ever. Not quite sure what to do with that reality...

~ Annie Larkin


Truly thought provoking. It struck me at the time, that much of what Coates is saying, although not identical, applies to what was, and still is, happening with regard to our Native Americans in general and to the Water Protectors in particular.

Excerpts (and I admit to cherry picking):
“... white America’s progress, or rather the progress of those Americans who believe that they are white,” ~ Ta-nehisi Coates
Americans deify democracy in a way that allows for a dim awareness that they have, from time to time, stood in defiance of their God. ---and America’s heresies – torture, theft, enslavement - are so common among individuals and nations that none can declare themselves immune. ~ Ta-nehisi Coates
Americans believe in the reality of “race” as a defined, indubitable feature of the natural world. Racism . . . inevitably follows from this inalterable condition.

But race if the child of racism, not the father... ... Difference in hue and hair is old. But the belief in the preeminence... ...is the new idea at the heart of these new people who have been brought up... ...to believe that they are white. ~ Ta-nehisi Coates
~ Liz Webster 


I have to read for awhile and then think about words that Coates says to his son. To me, he reveals how important it is to know your history to truly understand who you are but at the same time how difficult that has been for the black-American culture with so little written and available to them during their public school education. It makes me realize, as well, how we write what we want in our history books and many times leave out the horrific things we do to our fellow man. The reality of how hard it was to find out his own history due to the fact that most text books in school didn’t share the ugly truths or beautiful truths of his cultures past. Our country likes to talk about how great  and free it is but it doesn’t want to discuss or talk about so many of the awful ways we treated people of other cultures in our history; Native Americans, African Americans, Japanese, Irish, and more. Also, it seems to me we are just beginning to celebrate great things people of color have contributed to our society via books, movies and art. In conclusion, to me it is a very thought provoking book that opens my eyes to more compassion, understanding and awarenesses.

~ Linda Jenkins


These are Coates' words but not all direct quotes.
His life had been limited by fear of harm to his or his son's body. This book describes his odyssey to discover the broader more inclusive humanity, not skin color definitions, or life goals narrowed by focusing on "the Dream." - The dream of pot roast and pie and safe neighborhoods. 
The black body had been a tool of the industrial revolution for sugar, tobacco, cotton, and gold. The cotton through their chained hands started the destruction of the Earth. The industrial age created the automobile which is the noose around the neck of the Earth.
Humans habitually seek to preserve a hierarchy or establish a group to stay at the bottom. Thavolia Glymph stated, "The mountain is not a mountain with nothing below." 
Prince Jones was not murdered by a single officer but killed by his country and all the fears that have marked it from its birth. The problem with the police is not that they are fascist pigs but that our country is ruled by majoritarian pigs. 
At the end of the book, Coates has relative privilege, but I feel a profound sadness that I live with such privilege while so many humans are so threatened and insecure.

~ Ellen Bowles



Next Book: Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Location: Annie's
DateThursday, March 9, 2017
Time6:30pm



Upcoming meetings:

April 13, 2017 Ordinary Grace by William Kent Krueger at Kathy's
May 11, 2017 Girl with a Pearl Earring by Tracy Chevalier at Jo's
June 8, 2017 TBA at Linda's


Books we've read so far:

January 2014 - Grace (Eventually): Thoughts on Faith by Anne Lamott
February 2014 - The Book Thief by Markus Zusak
March 2014 - Life After Life by Kate Atkinson
April 2014 - The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-time Indian by Sherman Alexie
May 2014 - The Art of Racing in the Rain by Garth Stein
June 2014 - Breaking Free by Marilyn Sewell
July 2014 - The Orphan Train by Kristina Baker Kline
August 2014 - The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker
September 2014 - Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides
October 2014 - The Invention of Wings by Sue Monk Kidd
November 2014 - The Dovekeepers by Alice Hoffman
December 2014 - No book.  Holiday gathering.
January 2015 - No book.  Watched The Book Thief
February 2015 - The Secret Keeper by Kate Morton
March 2015 - Empire of the Summer Moon by S.C. Gwynne
April 2015 - The Orchardist by Amanda Coplin
May 2015 - The Cellist of Sarajevo by Steven Galloway
June 2015 - The Kitchen House by Kathleen Grissom
July 2015 - Still Alice by Lisa Genova
August 2015 - The Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown
September 2015 - Ruby by Cynthia Bond
October 2015 - To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
November 2015 - No book.  Watched To Kill a Mockingbird
December 2015 - No book.  Holiday gathering.
January 2016 - All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr
February 2016 - Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption by Bryan Stevenson 
March 2016 - Brooklyn by Colm Tóibín
April 2016 - Two Years Eight Months and Twenty-Eight Nights by Salman Rushdie
May 2016 - Jewelweed by David Rhodes
June 2016 - One Woman's River by Ellen Kolbo McDonah
July 2016 - Gift from the Sea by Anne Morrow Lindbergh
August 2016 - Deep Water Passage by Ann Linnea
September 2016 - This Road I Ride by Juliana Buhring
October 2016 - The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
November 2016 - No book.  Watched The Boys of '36
December 2016 - No book.  Holiday gathering.
January 2017 - About Grace by Anthony Doerr
February 2017 - Between the World and Me by Ta-nehisi Coates